Respect

Every word can have a different meaning in the mind. In our life experiences, we shape the meanings in our minds like sculptors, together with our environment. Therefore, words like love and respect, which are based on feelings, draws different meaning circles in every mind.

The fact that our bodies age naturally over time doesn't hold a definition of respect. When we repeat similar actions (memories) in the same environment throughout our lives, we live a life of rote learning (repetition) instead of gaining life experience.

When we restrict the freedom of another living being by controlling opportunities in nature, we are not actually respected, but rather obeyed. When any parent, teacher, leader, boss, scientist, or friend restricts our freedom, we choose to distance ourselves from that person. If we cannot distance ourselves, the reason is because freedom in other environments is blocked.

In communities unaware that nature is a common space where every living being shares their life, the repetition of actions that restrict freedom brings about natural obstacles. The situations necessary to overcome these obstacles manifest themselves through divine reinforcements (principles of natural balance). To illustrate this point, I will continue this writing by sharing excerpts from my own life.

My brother struggled with various illnesses from a young age. One of his most recent diagnoses was schizophrenia. My father had to give up his favorite sport, football, when we were young after injuring his leg. My mother struggled with numerous illnesses at different stages of her life. I, on the other hand, chose a lifestyle where I rarely got sick and never neglected my freedom. I often neglected my brother's opportunities.

I chose computer engineering, a profession I felt would be the profession of the future. I had the opportunity to work in different parts of the world. I had the chance to converse with thousands of people, have fun, learn, and create memories. With the instinct that I came to this world to live, I continued to make choices. I tried to become a better person, making better decisions at every turning point. I explored many topics that I was curious about and tried to discover human nature along with myself.

To avoid repeating the negative experiences I had, I wanted to carry out my social projects. Instead of focusing on personal projects, I started implementing my ideas aimed at improving the entire society, but this led to both health problems and financial losses. I encountered similar problems each time. I continued to improve my life experiences by trying to be a good person. I tried to experience firsthand what I heard or learned from others.

When I was using drugs, I was warned that because my brother had schizophrenia, I could also develop the same problem. I didn't respect; I tried.

When people around me were harming other living beings, I was warned not to interfere. I didn't respect; I tried.

When I was facing depression, I was warned that traveling abroad alone could harm me. I didn't respect; I tried.

I was warned that stopping my medication on my own would be detrimental to my health. I didn't respect; I tried.

When I reacted against my bosses' injustices, I was warned that I could lose my job. I didn't respect; I tried.

I was warned to stay out of politics and just focus on my own work. I didn't respect; I tried...

Years later, I was able to discover the natural (fundamental) truths we should really respect. I was able to unravel almost all the trickery in the political arena, the root of all diseases. I realized that the key principle of success behind the knowledge I gained and the fears I overcame wasn't solely dependent on me. I understood that I needed to be a better person for the people who needed what I discovered.

There are millions of people like my mother, father, brother, and friends. Within our societal norms, where my brother is defined as mentally disabled, I apparently lacked the life experience (capacity) to understand the words he chose to describe himself.

I had to show courage against the circles of respect surrounding fear to see that all the disabilities in our minds and bodies are at the heart of politics. My natural talents haven't arisen from my personal achievements, but from the needs of the people with whom I share nature. Therefore, respect, as a natural need, must be redefined around freedom.